Tuesday, September 16, 2008

The Love....Disneyland revisited

Finally way too late, but I wanted to conclude my views on your first Disney trip to Disneyland.  Yes, I know it has been a couple of months, but this was the most important part of the whole trip.  You see, the most important part of this adventure, was that we had a whole lot of LOVE to make each day so fun.  Your family loves you so very very much.  These girls cannot get enough of you and your cute fun.  I so look forward to seeing them with you the next time now that you are getting mobile and vocal.

Your Aunt Jen, thinks you are pretty rockin' too.

These two make quite the pair

And these two as well.  If your Uncle Dean had been a girl, he would have been just like Ashton...or if Ashton would have been a boy, she would have been just like your Uncle Dean....you get the idea...

Ah...sweet Miss B.  She takes such good care of you.

And Ashton does too...

I love you, little man.

I loved our first trip together.  I can hardly wait until we go again as every month you get more and more fun.  It is hard to believe that this was nearly 2 months ago.  You have already grown so much since then.  You do so much now that you did not do then.  It is truly amazing.

I look forward to all the parades to come and the absolute most perfect best part will be watching you watch them. I cannot manage to think of one single thing more interesting to me than to see than the excitement in your eyes, the joy in your smile and to see your little face light up as you take in all the lights, music and colors.

Yes, the love was flowing strong.  The laughter was bubbling often...

This Disney adventure was nearly perfect...minus the hot weather and crowds, of course...

But the love that was there....it does not get much better than that.  I know you won't remember any of it, but I hope you are imprinted forever with the love that surrounded you there.  It was a very special time.

Bathtime with Baby...

And thus begins your favorite part of the day...or perhaps your favorite 2 parts of the day because although you are a good eater, you are a very very messy eater.  Each meal requires a full dunking to get all the bits off.  But you love to play with the water coming out of the faucet.

Frequently you will lean forward and accidentally stick your head in the stream of water and come up sputtering.  It cracks me up every time.  But you are not deterred...

And this 99 cent little rubber blue whale means that I get to put towels around my feet and tucked under my chin...

Because you get so excited playing with it...

That half of your bath water ends up on the floor or on me.  But wow these are good times.  I love you little boy!

Love, Mommy


Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Cousin Love

You know there is that day when you are playing in your crib...

Enjoying the sights and sounds of your Jungle soother...

When you get so excited when you see your most favorite cousin...your own personal pet monkey who keeps you entertained non-stop all day long...

And this cousin of yours loves you so much that he wants to get in your crib with you to play and to take naps WITH you...

And he feels like giving you a little sugar...

And the next thing you know...


You are flat on your back in a 2 year old cousin love hold...

Good stuff....


Friday, September 5, 2008

Dear Mack - Month Seven

Dear Maverick,

To tell you the truth munchkin, I am enjoying the end of your seventh month more than I enjoyed the start of it.  You see, this month in my development as a first-time parent, I have been learning about the concept of phases.  I remember hearing parents say their kids were "going through a phase," but I never realized what it meant.  Here is what it means. Occasionally a child will display some sort of totally bizarre behavior that mystifies parents and defies all explanation.  Then, just as the parents start to figure out how to deal with the mystery behavior, it abruptly stops, never to return.  So "going through a phase" might as well be baby code for "trying to make me clinically insane by your first birthday."

I don't know what phase you were going through this month, but it involved a week or so of more fussing than usual and refusing to nap, followed by five days or so of even more fussing and sporadic night sleeping.  When you were at your worst, it seemed I could not do anything to console you.  I was fairly certain nothing was physically wrong with you so that was reassuring.  However, it was also disheartening, because it meant that no one, including your doctor, could tell me why you were upset.  

And then, just as I resigned myself to a lifetime of now having a fussy baby, you stopped, and you have been your usual content self ever since.  I am very thankful that you're not planning on fussing forever.  I just wish I could understand why you did it in the first place.  Maybe then I could prevent it.  Make it better.  But I will probably never know what was bothering you, and what's worse, there will probably be more times in the future when you will be upset and I won't be able to do anything about it.  When that happens, I wish there was some way you could know how much I want to fix it.  So much.

This "fussy phase" business aside, this has been your month to discover your potential for movement.  You continue to love our Friday playgroups and we have so much fun doing new things every week and I love having that special time with you every week.  There is no where I would rather be than with you.

Eating solid foods continues to be a source of great entertainment around here.  You are getting better at it and it continues to be great fun watching you try new tastes and textures.  There does not appear to be much you do not like, though tomatoes appear to not be one of your favorites.  But to the disappointment of many as they watched in anticipation of your first taste of pickle....you LOVE pickles.  You did not even bat an eye.  I have not given you lemon or lime just yet, but be warned....it's coming.

As Aunt Lori predicted, you have finally started crawling.  At first you did this uncomfortable looking cute inch-worm-like maneuver that involved scooting around on your stomach.  It looked terribly uncomfortable but it did start to get you going in forward motion.  For about a week or two you spent your time scrunching between your toys scattered about on the floor.  

Yet within a week or so, you were getting up and bouncing hard on all fours until just a couple of days before your 7th month birthday when you finally put all the pieces together and are now off to the races.

It is hard for me to believe that only 1 month ago I was celebrating your new ability to simply sit up.  It is quite amazing to me how briefly the time was that I could sit you up surrounded by toys and know you would stay put.  This is no longer true.  The new question around the house is "Where's Maverick?"  Much to my amazement, you are now even starting to pull up on things around the living room.   It seems once you master one task, whether it be sitting or crawling, within a matter of hours, you are already working on the next milestone.  No one has made a prediction on walking, but I do not think it will be long given how fast you are accomplishing everything else.  

This month you are working on figuring out your walker.  You spent a fun evening at your Aunt Lori and Uncle Deans new house blazing from one end of their living room to the other in a full on sprint.  

However, like a bad baby bumper car ride, you can navigate yourself into corners or against walls and cannot figure out how to get out of it.  So now, whoever happens by and finds you wedged up against something has to relocate your wheels so you can start moving again.  You also are trying to figure out how to reach things on the floor from the walker.  Sorry kid.  It ain't happening.  

You also have this little red number that you love to sit in, but have not yet figured out how to make it go.  That is ok.  Your cousin Austin is keeping it lubed up for you until you are ready...

For your 7th month birthday and to celebrate your new crawling abilities I got you some fabulous new crawling play tunnels.  You love to crawl in them and get so excited that you flip yourself over and kick your legs so hard and just squeal with glee.  Once inside, it is a challenge to get yourself to turn yourself back over and crawl out as you seem to be uninterested in getting out once you are in.  Occasionally, I have to navigate in and fish you out when you have decided you have had enough.  It is one of the cutest things ever.  I am a bit suspect about this spell you are casting on me and I try not to think about it too much, but it is getting you lots of really cool toys.

Speaking of your cousin.  You think he is the best thing ever. We jokingly refer to him as your pet monkey.  When he is in the room, you watch everything he does and find him so entertaining.  I am starting to think Aunt Lori likes the days he is here to keep you entertained.  You kick your little legs so very hard and squeal so very loud when you see him and get so very very excited.  You two are already great pals.  He hunts you down for hugs and kisses regularly too.  I look forward to watching you grow together and become great friends.

Overall, this has been a really great month with you.  It is fun to see you develop your own unique preferences and quirks.  You are funny and sweet and endearing, and every day I see you do some little thing or make some face that reminds me of your cousins, or me, or your grandparents or one of your aunts and uncles, and it amazes me to see how much we are all a part of you even while you are so clearly becoming a little individual.

I love you,
Mommy